Yet it is time that foreign churches, as well as sending money and priests to the Middle East, used their influence to reform family law in the region. Who will bring pressure to bear to modernise the dense muddle of Christian personal status laws in the Middle East? The majority of the 14 million Arab Christians there cannot divorce. Many are locked into dead marriages – or convert to another religion so they can divorce.
Being a member of a religion is a statement: that this is the revealed truth about this world and the next.
Some such religions say that marriage is indissoluble. Maybe this is the revealed truth and maybe it isn’t. But membership of a church which states that it is means taking that revealed truth as being revealed truth.
If you feel that no divorce is not part of the revealed truth then of course you’re stating that divorce isn’t part of the revealed truth. Therefore shifting your religious allegiance to another religion, one that does not claim no divorce to be part of the revealed truth, seems entirely logical.
Your desire to divorce is exactly that, a rejection of the teachings of the church you belong to. That you should therefore leave doesn’t sound all that terrible really.
And there aren’t any restrictions on being able to move churh. So why is this woman demanding that the churches must change their versions of the revealed truth?