Not that he needs defending by me of course.
But this thing that female sexuality is a little different from male, that if said sexuality were in fact the same then we’d be seeing female cottagers on Hampstead Heath.
Umm, it’s not actually that different from Robert Heinlein’s comment, that only on Earth could we have a shortage of what every woman has an infinite supply of.
It’s not that different from the common (in both senses) observation that women use sex to get what they want and men don’t: for what men want is sex.
As a heterosexual male I feel entirely confident in making all three of those statements.
As a married man I just hope my wife doesn’t read them.